Looking for the Silver LIning…

February 5, 2009 at 6:23 am 1 comment

  • There is a saying that “every cloud has a silver lining.”  We can’t find even a bit of silver in this massive storm system that is attacking us. The last two days in the hospital have been very hard on Dan.  He was admitted to the hospital so he can get rest, put on some weight. get in better physical shape before surgery next Monday. 
  •  BUT it’s not happening.. Dan has a roommate who keeps the loud TV on constantly, and “chats” loudly  for long periods of time with each hospital helper that comes to help him. Dan finally gathered up enough strength to get the TV turned off at 4:00 a.m. this morning. Because of slow service at every step of the way today, Dan had no food for 20 hours…and then was too weak to eat when food finally came.

There have been a number of small things that have all added up so that now Dan is exhausted.  Our son phoned the Head Nurse tonight to firmly voice our displeasure. The roommate is wearing the headphones, and  we  have a promise that Dan will get a private room in the morning.  Our son also left messages for the assistants of Dr. O’Dillon and Dr. Jehan that we have some serious problems with Dan’s care.

Maybe tomorrow we will find the silver lining?  Our son and precious daughter in law have their hands full.  They cannot continue to spend 4 hours a day taking me to the hospital and picking m up.  I hope to learn how to take the buses to Parnassus in the daytime.  I’ll still let them give me a ride after dark.

We don’t have to understand the reasons why bad things happen.  Our job is to be faithful to God...day in and day out. He will help us do that   — Anne and Dan


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Dan in Hospital The Silver Lining

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  • 1. melissa bourland  |  February 6, 2009 at 4:56 am

    Dearest Dan and Anne,
    I am sorry that you two are in the midst of such a storm. satan surely is unhappy with the Jesus Potential of the Holy Spirit moving through you two and reaching others for Christ. Paul and I pray earnestly for you that Jesus will hold you tonight through the wind and thunder, and that morning will bring His sunshine, calm waters, and clear skies. He is being glorified through you both, and all your friends and family are growing stronger in faith through your suffering. Think of how much all of us grow through Jesus Christ’s suffering. You are a part of His suffering. He knows you are hurting, and He will provide the special and tender care you need. He loves you both so much, and He has plans that satan cannot touch. We love you so much!!!
    To God Be the Glory.


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